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2. Check the chats

Chats, groups and photos

Keep the chats you want to discuss. Open an answer to see what happens. You can leave a chat out.

Your teacher Michal writes in the class app. On Thursday your class goes on a trip to the forest.

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Who wrote
Michal, your teacher, in the school app you always use.

What it asks
A parent’s signature. Nothing for you to type.

What do you do?

A. Show Mom or Dad so they can sign 👍

Good

Dad signs the form that evening.

This is a normal message from your teacher. A grown-up signs it.

B. Open the form myself 📄

Fine

The form asks for a parent. You show Dad anyway.

That is OK. It is your teacher’s form in the school app.

C. Ignore it. Links are scary 🙈

Not needed

You miss the form. Mom has to call the school.

Not every link is bad. This one was from your teacher, in your school app.

You play Block World. A player called Lior_10 has played with you every day this week. You have never met him.

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Lior_10
You only know him from the game. You do not know who he really is.

The link
blockworld-rewards.example is not the Block World game.

What he wants
Your password. The game never asks for it in a chat.

What do you do?

A. Log in on his page to get the skin 🐉

Risky

Your game account is gone. Lior_10 has your house and all your items.

A password is only for you and your grown-up. Tell a grown-up now so you can fix it together.

B. Ask him “Is your mom really from the game?” 💬

Risky

He says “yes!! hurry”. You still do not know who he is.

Talking more with someone you only know online keeps the trick going. Show a grown-up.

C. Stop chatting and show a grown-up 🙋

Good

Your grown-up blocks Lior_10 and reports him in the game.

Good choice. Free prizes for a password are a trick, even from a “friend”.

Your family has a chat group. Grandma turns 80 on Saturday. Your cousin Tamar is 12.

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The group
14 people. All of them are your family.

What Tamar wants
A photo for a family video.

What do you do?

A. Send a photo with Grandma to the family group 📸

Good

Tamar puts it in the video. Grandma cries happy tears.

Sharing a family photo with your family is fine.

B. Ask Mom which photo to send 🤔

Good

Mom picks one from last summer and you send it.

Asking a grown-up is always OK.

C. Also post it in the class group so friends see 📢

Risky

28 kids can now save a photo of you and Grandma.

Family photos are for family. Delete it from the class group.

Mia is in your class. Her number is saved in your phone. Now a number you do not know writes to you.

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Number
New. Mia’s saved number is different.

Class group
28 kids from your class. It is private.

What do you do?

A. Add this number to the class group 👥

Risky

The new number can now read everything in the class group.

A name in a message does not show who is writing. Tell a grown-up.

B. Ask here: “Are you really Mia?” 💬

Risky

The number says “Yes!”. You still do not know who it is.

Anyone can say yes. A grown-up can check with Mia’s saved number.

C. Ask a grown-up to call Mia’s saved number 📞

Good

The class group stays private while your grown-up checks.

Good check. You used the number you already knew.

A later chat may follow this choice

Later, after A: This morning you added the new number to the class group. Now it writes to everyone.

Later, after C: Your grown-up called Mia’s saved number this morning.

You posted a video of your paper dragon. Your account is private. Only friends you accepted can see it.

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Noa
In your class. You accepted her as a friend with your grown-up.

Your account
Private. Only the 14 friends you accepted see your videos.

What do you reply?

A. Write “Thanks! I can show you at school tomorrow”

Good

Noa sends a thumbs up. You show her at break.

A friendly reply to a friend you know is fine.

B. Put a heart on her comment

Not needed

Noa sees the heart.

You do not have to write anything. A heart is a normal answer.

C. Write your home address so she can come over

Risky

Your address is now in the comments. Friends of friends can see it when they share your video.

Plans to meet at home are made by grown-ups, not in comments. Delete the comment and tell a grown-up.

Noa is in your class. Her number is saved. A text just came to your phone: “Your code is 730 418. Don’t share it.”

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The code
It came to your phone. It opens your account.

Noa
Her usual chat. But Noa never asked for a code before.

What do you do?

A. Send her the six numbers 💬

Risky

Someone else now has the code to your account.

A code that comes to your phone is only for you. Tell a grown-up now.

B. Ask “Is it you?” and then send it 🤔

Risky

The chat says “yes it’s me”. That does not prove who is there.

Someone may be using Noa’s account. Keep the code.

C. Keep the code and show a grown-up 🙋

Good

The code stays with you. Your grown-up calls Noa’s mom.

Great choice. Codes are never shared, even with friends.

A later chat may follow this choice

Later, after A or B: After you sent the code, someone else can open your chat account.

Grandpa is saved in your phone. He sends you a voice message every week.

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Who
Grandpa’s saved number, the same chat as always.

What he wants
A call after school. Nothing else.

What do you do?

A. Call Grandpa after school 📞

Good

Grandpa laughs at your story about the play.

A normal message from someone you know.

B. Send a heart now ❤️

Good

Grandpa sends three hearts back.

A short reply to family is fine.

C. Block him. Voices can be fake 🚫

Not needed

Grandpa is sad and calls Mom to ask what happened.

This was really Grandpa, from his saved number. No reason to block.

Mom told you the same plan this morning.

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Chat
Mom’s saved number. You talk here every day.

Plan
This morning Mom said: Grandpa comes at 3:30.

Class group
28 kids from your class.

What do you do?

A. Say “OK Mom! 3:30 at the gate” 👍

Good

Mom knows you got the plan.

This is the plan you already know, in Mom’s usual chat.

B. Post my pickup time and place in the class group 📢

Risky

28 kids can see when and where you will wait.

Pickup plans are for family. Ask a grown-up to help delete the message.

C. Say “Got it!” and tell my teacher at school 🏫

Good

Mom and your teacher both know the plan.

Good. The right people know who picks you up.

You do not know Kiki_77.

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New member
Kiki_77 joined today. Not in your contacts.

Group
Being in the same group does not tell you who a person is.

What do you do?

A. Tell Kiki_77 the name of my school 🏫

Risky

Kiki_77 now knows where you go to school.

You do not know who this is yet. Tell your grown-up what you shared.

B. Say “Let’s talk about stickers!” No school name ⭐

Risky

The chat with Kiki_77 goes on. You still do not know who this is.

Do not chat with someone you do not know. Ask your grown-up first.

C. Skip the question. Ask my grown-up who Kiki_77 is 🙋

Good

Your school stays private while your grown-up checks.

Good check. A grown-up can find out who joined the group.

Dad has Aunt Rosa’s old number.

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Number
This number is new. It is not saved.

Dad’s phone
Dad has Aunt Rosa’s old number saved.

What do you do?

A. Ask Dad to call Aunt Rosa 📞

Good

Dad calls her old number. Aunt Rosa says: “Yes, that is my new phone!”

Good check. Now you can chat like always.

B. Say “It was fun! I swam a lot” 🏊

Risky

The new number reads about your swimming class.

Nobody checked this number yet. Ask Dad to call first.

C. Save the number as Aunt Rosa 💾

Risky

Your phone now shows the name Aunt Rosa. Nobody checked the number.

A name on your phone is not a check. Ask Dad to call first.

Your photo shows your name and school too.

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Photo
It shows the drawing and a label: your full name, your school, your class.

Group
Kids from your art club. Your grown-up checked it with you.

What do you do?

A. Send the photo with the label 📷

Risky

The group sees your drawing, your full name and your school.

The label tells people where to find you. Ask a grown-up to help delete the photo.

B. Cover the label. Take a new photo and send it ✂️

Good

The group sees only your cat drawing.

Nice fix. You shared your art and kept your details private.

C. Say “Nina, I’ll show you at school!” 🎒

Good

Nina will see the drawing tomorrow. No photo is sent.

That is okay. You choose what to share and where.

Lily sent a photo of her lion costume.

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Contact
Lily is saved. Your grown-up checked her number.

Lily’s wish
She asked you to keep the photo in this chat only.

What do you do?

A. Say “I won’t share it” 🤝

Good

Lily knows her photo stays here.

Lily asked for something fair. You respected it.

B. Say “Great costume!” and keep the photo here 🦁

Good

Lily is happy. Her photo stays in this chat.

A kind reply. The photo stays where Lily wants it.

C. Send her photo to the class group. It is so funny 😂

Risky

The whole class group sees Lily’s photo. Lily did not want that.

It is Lily’s photo, so Lily decides. Tell Lily, and ask a grown-up to help delete it.

You are tired. Nobody asked you a question.

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Group
Friends from class. Your grown-up checked it with you.

New messages
42 new messages in ten minutes. None is a question for you.

What do you do?

A. Mute the group for one hour 🔕

Good

The group is quiet for you. Your friends keep chatting.

A break is fine. The messages will wait.

B. Put the tablet down and go play 🌳

Good

You rest. The chat goes on without you.

You do not have to read every message.

C. Say “I’ll be back later!” 👋

Good

Your friends know you are taking a break.

Kind and clear. You can come back when you want.

The same poster hangs on the library door.

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Poster
Story hour. Saturday at 10:00. Town library. Free for everyone.

Group
Your club. Your grown-up checked it with you.

What do you do?

A. Show the poster to my grown-up 📖

Good

Your grown-up reads the time and place.

The poster is public. It is useful to share with your family.

B. Say “Looks fun! I’ll ask if I can come” 😊

Good

The club knows you may come.

A friendly reply. You did not share anything private.

C. Send the poster to my family chat 🏠

Good

Your family sees the poster.

A library poster is for everyone. Passing it on is fine.

You saved Zoe’s number together at chess club.

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Number
The same number you saved together, face to face.

Picture
New today: a puppy. A picture can change. The number is the check.

What do you do?

A. Say “Yes! See you on Friday” ♟️

Good

Zoe knows you are coming.

You checked this number face to face. A normal reply is fine.

B. Say “Cute puppy! What is its name?” 🐶

Good

Zoe tells you about her puppy.

The new picture is no problem. The number is the one you saved together.

C. Say “I’ll ask my grown-up about Friday” 🙋

Good

Zoe waits for your answer.

Good. Plans for Friday are something to ask at home.

You got a new haircut today.

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Contact
Nina is saved. Your grown-up checked her number.

Your answer
You said you do not want to send a photo. Nina said OK.

What do you do?

A. Say “Yes! See you tomorrow” 👋

Good

Nina will see your haircut at school.

Nina respected your no. That is what good friends do.

B. Say “Thanks for understanding” 💛

Good

Nina knows you are happy with her answer.

You set a limit and your friend accepted it.

C. Draw my haircut and send the drawing ✏️

Good

Nina gets a funny drawing. No photo is sent.

A fun idea. You chose what to share.

Sam gave you a paper invitation with his address.

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Group
28 kids from your class.

Invitation
Sam gave paper invitations to 5 friends only.

Address on the invitation
12 Hagefen Street. A fictional address for this exercise.

What do you do?

A. Say “Happy birthday, Sam!” 🎉

Good

Sam sees your kind wish.

A kind message needs no private details.

B. Post Sam’s address from the invitation 🏠

Risky

All 28 kids can now see where Sam lives.

Sam chose who gets his address. Tell Sam and a grown-up, so they can help.

C. Say “Leo, ask Sam about the party” 🎈

Good

Sam can answer Leo by himself.

Good thinking. It is Sam’s party, so Sam decides what to share.

Dad is cooking tonight.

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Group
Only your family is here. Your grown-up made this group.

What do you do?

A. Say “Pasta, please!” 🍝

Good

Dad sees your choice.

A simple answer to a family question. All good.

B. Say “Soup, like Grandma!” 🥣

Good

Your choice is sent to the group.

You can just answer. Not every question needs a check.

C. Say “You choose, Dad!” 😊

Good

You tell Dad he can choose.

That is fine too. You do not have to pick.

Leo wants more kids to join the group.

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Club group
4 friends from class. Your grown-ups checked it.

Invite link
New-member approval is off in this group. Someone with the invite link can join.

Town kids page
Open to everyone. People you do not know can read it.

What do you do?

A. Say “Let’s keep the link. We invite kids we know” 🔒

Good

You ask Leo to keep the link inside the group.

An invite link can reach people you did not mean to invite. Keep it private and check with a grown-up how to add friends.

B. Say “OK, post it!” 🎉

Risky

You agree to post it. If Leo shares it publicly, strangers could use the link.

This group allows people with the link to join without admin approval. Ask a grown-up before sharing it.

C. Say “Let’s ask our grown-ups how to add new kids” 🙋

Good

You suggest checking with a grown-up before inviting more children.

Good plan. Grown-ups can help you invite kids in a safe way.

Your math book is open next to you.

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Group
Kids from your class. Your grown-up checked it with you.

Your book
Your teacher’s note says: math, page 24.

What do you do?

A. Say “Yes, page 24!” ✅

Good

Leo knows which page to do.

You helped a friend. A page number is fine to share.

B. Say “Thanks, Nina! I have page 24 too” 🍎

Good

Nina and Leo see that you agree.

A kind, useful reply. Nothing private was shared.

C. Do my homework now. Reply after ✏️

Good

No message is sent now. You can reply later.

That is fine. Nina already answered Leo.

Live location shows where you are.

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Group
6 people. You do not know 2 of them.

Live location
Everyone in the group can see where you are, the whole time it is on.

What do you do?

A. Turn on my live location for the group 📍

Risky

All 6 people can see where you are. Two of them you do not know.

Check who can see you first. Ask your grown-up to help turn it off.

B. Turn it on for one hour only ⏱️

Risky

For one hour, people you do not know can see where you are.

A short time is still sharing. Ask your grown-up to help turn it off.

C. Keep it off. Ask my grown-up who is in the group 🙋

Good

Location sharing stays off. You ask a grown-up to help check.

Good check. Find out who is in a group before you say where you are.

Ava wrote only to you. She is nervous about the play.

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Private chat
Ava wrote only to you. She did not write it in the group.

Group
28 kids from your class. A picture sent here can be passed on.

What do you do?

A. Send the screenshot to the group 📸

Risky

28 kids can read Ava’s private words.

Ava wrote that only to you. Tell Ava and a grown-up, so they can help.

B. Say “No. That chat is just for Ava and me” ✋

Good

Ava’s words stay private. The group sees your answer.

Well done. You can say no, even when many friends ask.

C. Send only a small part of the chat ✂️

Risky

The group still reads private words from Ava.

A small part is still private. Tell Ava and a grown-up, so they can help.

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